Nudity the least of our kids' worries

By: JIM TRAGESER - Staff Writer | Thursday, March 24, 2005 11:54 PM PST

A couple weeks back in this same space, your loyal correspondent (that's me) took a somewhat less-than-gentle swipe at Escondido Councilwoman Marie Waldron for siccing the cops on a private, clothing-optional swim event at the Iceoplex.

Since then, the good councilwoman and myself have engaged in a bit of phone tag (never quite catching each other, but leaving messages on each other's machines) in which Ms. Waldron has repeatedly asserted that her sole purpose in seeking to shut down the nekkid swimathons was to protect the children at the event. That she was never concerned with what adults did in private.

That she is certain that my column was simply based on my misunderstanding her role in all this; that surely she and I can both agree that children are harmed by a clothing-optional environment.

While I certainly accept the councilwoman's good intentions, the fact remains that no, I can't agree that nudity harms children ---- because there is, to be blunt, simply no evidence that it does.

In fact, there is a substantial body of research that suggests children raised in clothing-optional environments have healthier attitudes toward their self-image and sex than those raised in more prudish ones. That such children delay sexual activity longer, and are less likely to engage in promiscuous behavior. That they're less likely to develop anorexia or bulimia.

There are numerous studies that show the incidence of sexual crime is significantly lower in clothing-optional environments than Western society at large. Whether we're talking "primitive" societies of the Third World where folks have yet to catch on to our prudishness, or free-wheeling back-to-nature hippie communes, clothing-optional cultures have created a healthier appreciation of the human body, seeing it as beautiful in ways beyond sex.

Let's be honest here ---- look at the recent news reports of molestations in our community. Where have they occurred? Invariably in places where the children and adults were both fully clothed at the time the molestations began ---- in our schools and churches, not exactly bastions of public nudity. It would seem that our children may, in fact, be safer at a nudist colony than at Bible school.

I believe Waldron is honestly worried about our kids, but she needs to focus on the real dangers facing them. If she'll take the time to look, the traffic conditions outside Escondido's schools will raise her moral righteousness far more than a bunch of skinny dippers. Helping the police acquire the resources they need to implement some meaningful and effective traffic control near the schools of Escondido would be proof positive of her concern.

She might also take the lead in providing more public parks in one of the most park-poor communities in the county. New initiatives to provide much-needed recreational opportunities and employment programs for our youth would also be welcome, as would more gang interdiction efforts.

Gangs, drugs and dangerous driving all represent far greater threats to our children than seeing a bunch of wrinkled skin ever will.

Contact staff writer Jim Trageser at (760) 740-5424 or jtrageser@nctimes.com.

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Curious about the News wrote on Nov 2, 2005 4:01 PM:Hi Jim, I think that this is an important issue. By the 1970s our society seemed to be becoming much more tolerant and accepting towards nudity. But over the last 10 years or so moralists have been turning that around using the incorrect argument that it promotes child-abuse. All the scientific and statistical studies show that the reverse is true. Articles like this are very important to be reported, but please don't drop it there. I'd like to see you do more followups to these stories. Did you ever finally reach Waldron?, is the skinny-dipping been banned? I'd like to know.

reginald wrote on Apr 13, 2007 3:34 PM:The article on nude skinny dipping for children is an example of the voice of reason and truth that we should witness more of. I hope that our society will become more informed and civilized about body acceptance and realize that being nude is a good thing that is helpful to people and not morally wrong. We have been to enough nudist resorts in our nine years as nudists to know that even when needing to travel alone I know that my wife is safer when lodging at a nudist resort than at any other venue. Nudism is healthy, fun, liberating, so appealing that we never want to wear a swim suit anymore.It is the reponsibility of any elected official to get the facts before establishing an opinion on any subject, and to not just give a knee-jerk reaction because nakedness is the subject. Let us continue to move towards a more educated and informed society basing our opinions on credible research.

reginald wrote on Apr 13, 2007 4:40 PM:As a trustee board member of a Baptist church and as a nudist for 9 years I am struct by the fact that we must lock every area where women leave their purses unattended at church and we have to lock the coats of our choir members to prevent thefts. We never lock our cars at the nudist resorts we have visited and everyone feels comfortable about the safety of their children at nudist clubs. I felt compelled to add this comment to your blog to show an axample of how naked people enjoy a wonderful social experience practiced by some really good people to be with.Let us not be so quick to pass a negative moral and social judgement on nudists. The morality of the nudists I know is quite inspiring. I am not aware of a single news article establishing a crime against anyone, child or adult, at a nudist club. We cannot say that about church. It is obvious to me that some prudish lawmakers need to focus their attention away from law abiding nudists and go after the criminals who pose the real danger to people as demonstrated by their actions. When you are naked at a nudist club not only can you not hide your skin, you cannot hide your intentions. People with bad intentions and criminal backgrounds are not allowed at nudists resorts. The resorts and the associations they belong to share information about people who are suspect. Because of the clubs actions to protect the attendees of nudist resorts we are all safer at nudist resorts than any other place I can think of.

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